Who I am

My fundamental power is sensuality

in intimate relationships it is clearer, in social relationships it is more difficult: I understand that I have it because on some occasions this talent is released and many people recognize it, some are afraid of it. Often this quality is dormant, but I need to experience it outside of intimate relationships if I want to evolve it and make it a useful tool for my life as a power. Also, if I don’t manifest it, I repress my energy and it’s not healthy for me. I feel that it is an engine that when I manage to start it can activate many things around my life, but I still don’t know how. With the exception of intimate relationships, I am aware that I do not know how to use it yet, I am convinced that the only way to learn is to set it in motion, even if it scares me a little. I manifest and experience it especially during physical contact, in massage and dance. This talent becomes even more powerful if brought from the space of the heart, it becomes more assertive, it becomes clearer, others are able to accept it more easily, it becomes purer. He detaches itself from the social shadows on sexuality, and this makes it friendlier.

And I also have the power of the heart

so I have the potential to create a very powerful synergy between these 2 essentials: sensuality + love. My heart is big and has expanded more and more over all these years of heart training and meditation. Above all, I have developed the ability to return to the heart more easily when my heart closes. It is a very powerful tool, in many cases infallible and it is a power that everyone has but does not know how to use. This I want to make people understand and I want to teach them.

It is very important to be able to show what I am,

towards close people, in intimacy but also towards the public. I have begun to understand this by doing conferences (both online and offline) in the last year and a half, I have seen that I have a tendency to repress and block my energy when I do not manifest it.

When I am in the space where I can manifest myself, my talents emerge and I become attractive. Others recognize that I have a talent for explaining topics well, this creates a good connection with the interlocutors that feeds my energy and ignites my other talents such as sensuality. That’s why when I start talking and the energy flows I become attractive, especially the female audience is sensitive to it, but also the male one. Some people feel repulsed, like they feel my energy is too much for them, but this is probably not a good type of person for me. This happens more when I talk about topics related to sensuality, sexuality or intimacy in general, but also when I talk about topics I know well or when I teach in workshops (massage, meditation, graphics, 5tibetani…).

On the other hand, it’s difficult for me to create the space to manifest myself, for example to organize a conference. organize a massage class, a meditation event or find a client for an individual session.

In communication I have a great ability to listen to others

 It becomes even more powerful when I do it from the space of the heart, where I become very receptive, welcoming, I also facilitate the others to open their hearts and to get more in touch with their intimate truth. This is highly appreciated by others especially during individual sessions, but also in group sharing.

Music is a foundation of my life

Although I am not a musician I have devoted a lot of energy to music all my life. At the age of 7/8 I started making compilations on cassette, all the places where I live and work, music is almost always present. It is a very effective tool for changing the energetic vibration of the environment and of people and I recognize it as healing power. In massage I use specific music that I have selected over the years, in meditations I always use music, it is a very important tool also in my work. I have a good ability to recognize if a track has a musical quality that can be useful for my work, I spend a lot of time developing my music library.

I have always pursued and worked to protect my freedom,

the freedom to be who I am, to move and manifest in the world. Freedom is a fundamental point for life, to be in life; if you are not free you are forced to survive. I strongly believe in the value of freedom.

I have an ease in meeting new people

but in this last period of my life I need to evolve relationships with people who are more coherent with me. This I realized is a cure for my issue about grounding. Building relationships based on love, on mutual support, on truth, gives me a lot of nourishment and roots me, makes me feel at home. The effect is reciprocal. This also allows me to have conversations and exchanges useful for my personal evolution and the evolution of my projects.

I am a very sunny person, I think it is part of my astrological kit, many people give me this feedback and I understand that many would like to be.

Harmony is another strong point of mine,

I have used it for many years creating shapes on a visual level when I was doing a graphic designer, now I recognize that it was a limited space of manifestation because harmony can include everything, make everything more acceptable, usable, humane and easy. Harmony is putting elements together in a pleasant way, saying something in the right tone of voice, proposing a movement to another person consistent with the environment in which he is, and so on. I have sensitivity towards this aspect and I can use it.

When I lose confidence

(both in myself and outwards) these talents and strengths drift away and I lose contact with them, I lose my power and it is very evident to others. It often happens when other people don’t believe in me. It is an element that I must take into consideration.

It often comes naturally to me to bring the quality of hope to others

Often customers or friends report their problems to me as if they no longer have hope that things could change, I remaining relaxed in my heart and facilitating sharing, open this space from which I extrapolate an ingredient to give feedback and give hope and trust that it is always possible to change, improve and get better. It works, also because I really believe in this.

I have a natural quality for the use of electronic devices, since I was a child I immediately learned to use them and I was the best of all. In Aura-soma it is defined as an energetic quality of the “turquoise ray”. This talent has led me to work a lot with the computer and to be very familiar with it, although I don’t feel well when I sit too long at the computer.

Transformation,

going deep, facing and not avoiding. I really like to move on this level, a deeper level. I don’t like proposing meditation techniques for the pure pleasure of relaxation, I love those that lead to a deep space where you can see something new and activate a process, sometimes it’s a space of difficulty, far from relaxing. Always working on the cause, on the origin, on the source is a bit my motto and I recognize that sometimes it also has a shadow side that makes me a slave to it even when I work on myself. There is probably a strong belief in me that works with this theme.

Enjoying life

is a right and also a duty we have towards ourselves, I try to pursue it in my life and I am also happy when I help others wake up to pursue it in turn.

For many I represent a model to be imitated,

to be achieved. Others see me as a sunny, free person who does a satisfying and pleasant job. They see me as someone who has made a path of great improvement, even if they see above all the external sides of me: the places where I went to live (from Spilamberto to Milan, Ibiza, Cote d’Azur), the love relationships I have had, the job change from graphic designer to massage therapist, etc … But they don’t see all the work, commitment and fears I’ve faced for this process, but that’s okay, I don’t care. They believe that I have been kissed by luck, but it is not so, luck comes to you if you create the conditions for this to happen.

When I accompany people close to me

in the work of change, they are often afraid and flee. People would like the happiness pill, they have not yet understood that it does not exist and they continue to complain about what they live without being aware that it is they themselves who generate it.